Things do not change; we change.
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Things do not change; we change.
Henry David Thoreau
What you call “judgy,” I call abusive. The domestic abuse of men is a source of hidden shame, but one that needs to be brought out in the open. You sound like so many female abuse victims I’ve heard from over the years—asserting that when the abuser is not being abusive, things are good!
No room for abuse.